PrayerJune 19, 20263 min read

How Jesus Taught Us to Pray

Jesus made prayer small enough for anyone to carry. The Lord's Prayer shows a child speaking to a Father, not a performance.

By Carla Bosteder, M.Ed.

How Jesus Taught Us to Pray

Prayer can feel complicated, as if there is a correct formula you keep almost getting right. You may worry about saying the wrong thing, or not sounding spiritual enough to be heard. When Jesus' own followers felt unsure how to pray, He did not hand them a complex method. He gave them something short and plain.

The prayer He taught, often called the Lord's Prayer, fits in a few lines. It begins by addressing God as Father, a startlingly close word for the maker of everything. From there it stays simple. It honors God's name and asks for daily bread. It seeks forgiveness and asks for protection from evil. There is nothing ornate about it. It is the kind of prayer a child could learn and an exhausted adult could lean on.

Look at where it starts. Before a single request, it lifts up who God is and honors His name. The asking comes second, resting on the relationship first. That order quietly teaches us something. Prayer is not mainly a way to get things from God. It is mainly a way to be with the Father who gives them.

What Jesus said just before that prayer is just as telling. He warned against praying to be seen by others, the way some did on street corners to look impressive. He also warned against piling up empty phrases, as though God could be worn down by sheer word count. Real prayer, He taught, happens away from the audience, addressed to a Father who sees in secret. The point was never performance.

Notice how the prayer is aimed. It is directed to the Father. The New Testament shows us coming to God through Jesus, in His name, on the basis of what He has done. We are invited to ask the Father in Jesus' name, and we are promised that He hears. This keeps prayer wonderfully clear. You speak to the Father and come through the Son, and you can do it in plain words.

This is the heart of how the New Testament teaches us to come. We do not approach God on the strength of our own record. We come through Jesus, in His name, welcomed because of what He has done. That is why prayer can be reverent and relaxed at the same time. You are speaking to a holy God, and you are also a child who is fully welcome.

That simplicity is a gift on hard days. You do not need an impressive vocabulary or a polished routine. You need only to turn toward your Father, honestly, and speak. The model Jesus gave covers the essentials in a handful of phrases, which means your real prayers do not have to be long to be right.

It can help to remember that the prayer Jesus gave is a pattern, not a script you must recite word for word. He was showing the shape of a good prayer, not handing out a password. You are free to fill that shape with your own plain words and your own real day.

So if prayer has felt like a test you keep failing, let Jesus' example ease that. He made it small enough for anyone to carry. Address God as Father, and ask for what today actually requires. Seek the forgiveness and help you need, and trust that the One who taught this prayer is listening to yours.

Dear Father, thank You that I can come to You simply, through Jesus, without the right words or a polished routine. Teach me to pray the way He showed, honoring Your name and trusting You with today. Quiet my worry that I am doing it wrong. It is enough that I am here, talking with You. In Jesus' name, Amen.

More Resources

On praying the simple way Jesus taught:

  • Matthew 6:9-13 - The model prayer, short and addressed to the Father.
  • Matthew 6:6 - Pray to your Father in private, not for an audience.
  • John 16:23-24 - Ask the Father in Jesus' name, and receive.
  • 1 John 5:14 - Confidence that He hears prayer aligned with His will.
  • Philippians 4:6 - Bring everything to God in prayer instead of worry.
  • Hebrews 4:16 - Come to the throne of grace with confidence.

I created Simplify to Glorify for women of faith who are walking through hard seasons and need more than just encouragement — they need something to hold onto. I hold an M.Ed. in Curriculum Development, and I design every resource with both purpose and compassion. Honest. Grace-filled. Right where you are.— Carla Bosteder, M.Ed.